Puppy in the family: How to overcome stress, prevent biting and teach him cleanliness

The arrival of a puppy into your home is a wonderful experience, full of joy, mischievous moments and soft paws. But it also brings its first challenges – stress while adjusting, biting and housetraining. With a friendly but consistent approach, you can get through this period calmly and effectively. Below we offer you concrete tips on how to achieve this.

1. How to reduce stress in a puppy

A puppy comes from a familiar litter into a completely new environment – ​​full of unfamiliar smells, sounds and people. It is normal for him to experience stress. We can recognize it by hiding, excessive barking, restlessness or lack of motivation.

What can help?

  1. A cozy corner for relaxation
    Create a quiet space or cage where he feels safe. If introduced correctly, a cage is not a punishment, but a personal sanctuary where he can take a break.
  2. Mental and physical activity
    Walks, short training sessions, and interactive toys not only tire out the body, but also the mind – which effectively lowers stress levels.
  3. Calm presence of the owner
    A calm tone, gentle petting, and your closeness are calming. Dogs sense our energy – if you are relaxed, your puppy will be calmer too.
  4. Gradual adaptation to solitude
    If he is often alone, teach him this gradually – always have access to a safe corner.

2. How to prevent biting

Biting is a natural part of a puppy's development - it's a way for them to explore the world, play, and express their emotions. But how do you teach them to only bite appropriate things?

Proven approaches:

  1. Redirecting to appropriate toys
    Always have safe, chewable toys on hand. When he starts chewing furniture or you, immediately offer him an alternative.
  2. Learning through reaction
    If the bite hurts, say a clear, high-pitched "ouch," then stop playing for a few seconds. This teaches your dog that a hard bite means you're losing your attention.
  3. Socialization and playing with other dogs
    Quality play with other dogs and people helps him understand the strength of his bite and develops social skills.

3. Teaching room cleanliness

Getting used to toileting outside requires patience, but with the right schedule and incentives, success is guaranteed.

Key steps:

  1. Regular exits
    Take him outside every 30–60 minutes, as well as immediately after sleeping, playing, or feeding.
  2. Praise and reward
    When he goes outside, praise him immediately and reward him with a treat. He will quickly associate the correct behavior with a positive outcome.
  3. Enzymatic cleaners
    Accidents happen. Use enzymatic cleaners to clean – they remove odors and reduce the chance of them happening again in the same spot.

4. Understanding behavioral problems

Puppies are curious explorers. Problems often arise from:

  • Lack of stimulation → Add interactive toys, reduce alone time.
  • Inappropriate play → Avoid rough play with hands or objects that are not intended for biting.
  • Over-intensive training → Train in short, fun intervals; avoid efforts that are not appropriate for your developmental level.

5. When to seek professional help?

If, despite your efforts, your dog shows signs of severe stress (excessive barking, aggression, destruction, uncontrollable biting), contact a veterinarian or a dog behavior consultant.

Harmonious coexistence

With consistency, patience and understanding, you will help your puppy grow into a happy and balanced dog. The triple threat of stress reduction, biting prevention and housetraining can be achieved without punishment, with a friendly routine and positive motivation. This builds trust and a wonderful bond between you and your new best friend.

Read more: Raising a dog - building trust, respect, and a joyful bond.

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